Ladies, ladies...

This is for the females out there. Do you want a man? Do you want to be loved? Do you want a nice guy to bring you flowers, respect you, and treat you like a LADY? THEN BE ONE.
If you are wearing a skirt that barely covers your butt and a shirt that is showing off your boobies, you are not going to be respected. If you are dancing like you're at an audition for a strip club, you will not be respected.
Now, I KNOW it's good to have a guy's eyes on you. It's nice to feel like the hottest mamacita in the room. But if you want a guy to respect you and love you then you've gotta respect and love yourself. If you treat yourself like crap, you are giving permission for men to do the same.
Shaking your booty and having all the older men drooling all over feels good. But it's not worth it! Waiting for that ONE guy in the whole world who will treat you right and love you well is worth it. I know it seems like he's not out there. I know it feel like all men are the same - they want a good-looking girl and the only way to call a guy's attention is by showing yourself off. But I promise you that he's out there.
You don't need to put yourself out there. You don't need to play the "I'm the sexiest" game. A real MAN is not looking for that.
Think about the type of man that you want for the rest of your life. Do you want that man to be looking at girls that are showing off every curve in their body and flirting shamelessly with every hottie who walks in the door? Or do you want your man to look for a woman with values, who has her heart in the right place, and doesn't give herself away to any man? Now think about your lifestyle. Would you want your man to live the way you do?
As women we can get quite desperate for love. We desire love. We were made for it. I've watched countless romantic comedies, flirted with the wrong guys, cried every single time I've watched The Notebook (I've lost count!), and cried and begged to God when I've felt lonely. However, it is important that we keep our heads screwed on right and keep up the hope that Mr. Right is coming. He's not checking out the bootys at the dance floor. He may be a great dancer, but grinding up on some chick isn't his style. You deserve more than that. You were not created for a boy. You were created to have a man.
He IS out there. I know it seems impossible, but he IS.